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If You Have Big Credit Card Debt Are You A Complusive Debtor?

In recent years there has been a growing incidence of consumers carrying hight credit card debt. Many are finding this debt burden difficult to handle, but would rather not examine whether they may be compulsive when it comes to using credit cards. Denial can run deep. Those with heavy debt are reluctant to admit that they may be compulsive and out of control when it comes to managing their money. Facing it is simply too painful.

Probably most people who are finding that substantial credit card debt is proving difficult to manage will not care to dig very deeply into this topic. Such is the nature of denial. We’d prefer simply to ignore any examination of signs that we may be compulsive and out of control around money. It’s too painful to contemplate.

Indeed, most who have dysfunctional and compulsive tendencies when it comes to money will not begin to look closely at their debting behavior until it reaches crisis proportions. Only then, as panic begins to take over, will a degree of willingness to examine one’s relationship to money, personal finances and debt begin to creep in.

Often, the first impulse when a personal financial crisis erupts is to blame others and assume the role of a victim. Obviously, this offers no solution, and probably will compound the dilemma. Next, some willingness to seek debt help may occur, and the debtor then looks at the possibilities of borrowing from family or friends, thus dragging others into the problem who don’t deserve it.

If that fails to work, alternatives such as debt consolidation, refinancing a mortgage and even bankruptcy are considered. These measures can reduce debt and provide some relief, but always fail to address an underlying problem of compulsive debting.

If you find yourself in this situation, there are a number of clear signs that you may be a compulsive debtor. Here are a few questions you might ask yourself:

1. Is it difficult for you to pass up buying something on credit because it’s a really good deal?

2. Does having the ability to whip out a credit card for purchases give you an ego boost, a feeling of being accepted, like being grown up or a member of a privileged club?

3. Are you using one credit card to pay off another?

4. Do you bounce checks from time to time?

5. Are you having problems meeting just ordinary personal expenses, and do you get a feeling of accomplishment when these obligations are satisfied?

6. Do you live in drama and chaos when it comes to money, continually having a crisis to deal with?

7. Are you vague about your personal finances, not being clear about how much you owe, your monthly expenses, interest rates and the like?

There are a number of other indicators, but, if you answered several of these questions affirmatively, then you may be a compulsive debtor. Debt relief will evade you until you get a grip on the belief systems and behavior underlying your money problems. Credit counseling is probably in order, and you might benefit from a spiritual program such as Debtors Anonymous.

In today’s plastic savvy times, it is just so easy to fall into debt. The great thing about credit cards is that you don’t need to pay anything upfront making it so much easy for all of us to shop for our favorite products. But the flip side of it is that most people do not realize that the credit card companies levy exorbitant interests if you do not pay the bills on time. The result: you are thrust neck deep into debt.

So what options do you have? Declaring bankruptcy or just hiding yourself under the bed? Hardly a solution! The first thing to do is to accept and admit that you are in debt. There is no need to be ashamed of your financial crisis. With UK’s current deficit touching the 1 trillion mark, there are a lot of UK residents who are facing similar situations.

The next thing that is likely to pop up in your mind is whether you should hide your debt status from your lenders or disclose it. Your first instinct is going to tell you to let thing be the way they are. But that is not a correct approach. Most companies will be willing to work out an agreement with you as long as you keep them informed about your inability to keep up with the payments. So go ahead and tell them about your financial crisis.

That’s done; now you must draw out a list of your debts and outstanding payments. Compile a financial statement of sorts and find out to what extent your outgoings are exceeding your income. Leaving aside the bare necessities like gas, food, water and electricity, can you cut down on any of your other expenses? Check if you are missing out on any benefits that you may be eligible for.

If status still seems abysmal, what you can do is draw out a debt consolidation loan. This loan basically wraps up all your debts into a single loan. So, now you don’t have to worry about several monthly payments. A single monthly payment will do for all other payments.

What’s great about debt consolidation loans is that they come at an interest rate that is a lot lower than the cumulated interests of your credit card bills and other outstanding payments. Add to this, you no longer have to deal with the harrowing calls of your creditors. Your consolidation loan lender will take care of all that. He will negotiate with your creditors and you have to just worry about paying this single loan and nothing else.

A debt consolidation loan will not only help you get out of your debt swamp, but also help you in improving your credit score. This is a far better option than declaring bankruptcy wherein your credit score goes straight for a nosedive. However, you must remember to pay your debt consolidation loan installments on time, lest you end up facing a legal action.